Swinger party & House party etiquette
Whichever swingers’ parties you go to, there are certain rules, etiquettes and pointers you might want to get prepared for prior to going. So, we put together some tips for you below
- RELAX and GET ACQUAINTED
Whether it’s a club or a house swinger’s party, you and everyone there, are there to have a good time. So, relax and enjoy the party as you would any other. German’s might come across as forward but they are very respectful of others and their boundaries. Don’t be shy and introduce yourselves to other people. You’ll find German swingers’ eager to welcome you and to help you blend into their swingers’ parties Germany.
- SOME TIPS ON ETIQUETTE
Be cool and watch for. A while, observe how German’s house and swingers’ parties work. While some things might be different, most remain similar. Do not have unrealistic expectations.
Do take care to be presentable, smelling and looking good leads to people approaching you. Success equals effort. Remember nobody likes ‘pushy’ individuals. Let things evolve at their own pace. Attraction is a finicky thing and you can’t force it. So, if someone likes you back, they will show you, if not move on and try your lucky with someone else.
Be polite and after a night of fun express your appreciation.
Swingers are looking for specific things, just like you might, so what might sound like a rejection, might be more to do with what they are looking for than what you look like.
- JOIN THE CONVERSATION
Swingers’ clubs in Germany probably differ from your back home. However, it always a good idea to be social and participate in conversation. It’s a good ice-breaker by introducing yourself and you’ll quickly start feeling at home. Lucky for most of us that most Germans have a good grasp of English, making it easier to mingle and socialise. Allowing you and others to perhaps discuss and answer questions about the lifestyle.
- START OFF ON THE RIGHT FOOT
Whether you are a seasoned swinger or a beginner, going to a club or house swingers’ party requires you know what your boundaries are, what you want to do and not do. After it is always a good to decompress in other words, to talk things over. What you liked and what you didn’t, what you’d change next time you go to another swingers’ party.